I have met a great new guy and I’m in love with him. We have marriage plans. He is pretty good in bed, but there’s one odd thing. He is afraid to let me touch his organ, because he says that a girlfriend “fractured it” some years ago. Is that possible? Or is he kidding me?

It’s perfectly possible. A violent twist of the erect penis can indeed produce a painful fracture. That is a medical emergency, and may well require surgery. Try to get him to tell you more about this painful episode, because it would probably be a good idea for him to talk about what happened. It may be that throughout your lives together, you’ll have to take care to handle him gently.